{"id":8009,"date":"2018-11-25T20:50:29","date_gmt":"2018-11-25T20:50:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/?p=8009"},"modified":"2018-11-25T20:50:29","modified_gmt":"2018-11-25T20:50:29","slug":"the-mixer-cream-and-grandma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/?p=8009","title":{"rendered":"The Mixer, Cream, and Grandma"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8011 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image-9-225x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image-9-225x300.png 225w, https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image-9-768x1022.png 768w, https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image-9-769x1024.png 769w, https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image-9.png 818w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/>At some point, my Mother would let my daughters &#8220;help&#8221; her with the mashed potatoes every Thanksgiving and Christmas. As with most small children, the word &#8220;help&#8221; was used in a very loose sense of the word.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not certain at what age the tradition started, but they were fairly small and over time went from just doing a little &#8220;mixing&#8221;\u00a0 and &#8220;helping&#8221; at the end to doing more and more of the actual prep every year. Mom always put cream in her mashed potatoes and that&#8217;s what my daughter is doing in this picture.<\/p>\n<p>Occasionally the mashing was done with a fork. Usually the mashing was done with a potato masher and when the girls were old enough to actually mash the potatoes instead of doing just a final stirring, that&#8217;s what they did. Grandma always supervised making certain the consistency was what it should be.<\/p>\n<p>Sometime before my daughter was really on her own, my mother bought her a mixer. It&#8217;s the one shown in the picture. At that point, Mom was already ill and I&#8217;m pretty certain she wanted to give it to her before she passed. Personally I thought orange was a somewhat unusual color, but I managed to keep my opinion about that to myself. I understood the symbolism of the mixer, what it meant to my mother and what it would hopefully mean to my daughter.<\/p>\n<p>My daughter and her husband moved into a house of their own. We helped them to move. I put the mixer in the back of my daughter&#8217;s car to move it. I remembered thinking to myself &#8220;do not drop the damned thing.&#8221; I wasn&#8217;t cursing the mixer, but rather giving myself a stern lecture to be careful with it. As I carried it into their new home, I felt it slip ever so slightly as I walked in the back door. Fortunately the slip was either minimal or entirely in my mind. The mixer was safely ensconced on the counter.<\/p>\n<p>A few weeks later we were unable to find the potato masher the day after Thanksgiving. We made do with the mixer instead. Someone&#8217;s father and someone else&#8217;s son probably hastily and inadvertently hid the potato masher.<\/p>\n<p>That was fine. The mixer did the trick. Mom was there in spirit and someone got a nice picture and memory in the process.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; At some point, my Mother would let my daughters &#8220;help&#8221; her with the mashed potatoes every Thanksgiving and Christmas. As with most small children, the word &#8220;help&#8221; was used in a very loose sense of the word. I&#8217;m not certain at what age the tradition started, but they were fairly small and over time [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8009","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8009","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8009"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8009\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8009"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8009"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rootdig.genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8009"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}